We are having a break because I admitted I had emotionally cheated on him for 4 months during the time we've been together. I've already ended that affair before I told him the truth. It's been 10 days now since the break started. But we already talked through a lot of stuffs, and already met 3 times. He told me he will make the final decision whether we should be together or not. But everytime we met, he hugged me and said he loves me, and even said he has hope and asked me to have hope too. I know I'm afraid of losing him. But at this moment, what should I do? Should I be paranoid about the final decision?

me and my boyfriend of 2 months were going out and we were super happy and closer then ever, then one night out with him i got extremely drunk and got with someone else, it was just a kiss but he saw and now he has no trust in me, he says its over because he cant trust me but i still want to get him back and i need to build his trust back up, i have sent him lots of messeges but he rarely replies, i am starting the no contact period but if he has said its over and doesnt trust me, where do i start in order to get his trust back?

I entered into a relationship with the other girl for about a month and then realized that I was extremely wrong and my GF really is the one I should be with!

To be honest, you are looking at an uphill battle. It's been only two months and he wasn't invested in you that much to put in the effort of rebuilding trust. Your best bet is to give it a couple of weeks of NC and then try contacting him again. But again, your chances are very less.

She tells me she still loves me and wants to try again but that I need to just "let her be" and today I wrote her a email saying I was gonna give her space and that I will contact her when I'm ready

Hello, Me and my GF have been dating for about 1 year and a half and about a month ago I ended the relationship because I thought at the time that I had feelings for someone else and that my GF wasn't really the girl I should be with. So I have been trying everything I possibly can to win her back and some days are good with us but lately it has been just horrible and she wants nothing to do with me, she says she doesn't trust me and she can't believe I left her for another girl. Should I have not said that? I feel that if she contacts me though I will be weak and give in and respond back. What also is a problem for me is the fact that she has gone out on a couple of dates with this guy, it really bothers me and makes me very depressed. She says she likes him and the "he is nice", is he something to worry about? I really do not want to lose her and I kind of feel like I have and it's hard to have hope, it's hard to know what to think or do when I feel like I am a roller coaster of emotions and I can't get a grip on anything.